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		<title>Donald Trump and Melania Trump: A Deep Dive into Their Roles</title>
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<p>A year ago, I knew their names but had no idea what they were truly involved in. I was too focused on my own creative world. But I must sincerely apologize, from the bottom of my heart, because these individuals are truly extraordinary.</p>



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    <ol class="toc-list open"><li><a href="#toc1" tabindex="0">Donald Trump: From Business Magnate to Galactic Mission</a></li><li><a href="#toc2" tabindex="0">A Bridge Between Cosmic Beings and Earth Humanity</a></li><li><a href="#toc3" tabindex="0">The Mystery of His Lineage: Connection to General Patton and Lincoln</a></li><li><a href="#toc4" tabindex="0">Melania Trump: The Romanov Lineage and a Hidden Battle</a></li><li><a href="#toc5" tabindex="0">Russian Royalty&#8217;s Blood and the Truth of the Current &#8220;Invisible War&#8221;</a><ol><li><a href="#toc6" tabindex="0">The Romanovs: Executed Russian Royalty</a></li></ol></li><li><a href="#toc7" tabindex="0">The Truth Behind the Execution: The Shadow of the Rothschild Family and International Finance</a></li><li><a href="#toc8" tabindex="0">Is Melania a Romanov Descendant?</a><ol><li><a href="#toc9" tabindex="0">Towards a Galactic Shift: Why Now?</a></li></ol></li><li><a href="#toc10" tabindex="0">Are We Fighting &#8220;Communism&#8221; Again?</a></li><li><a href="#toc11" tabindex="0">The &#8220;Final Cleanup&#8221; Stage: Hope for the Future?</a></li></ol>
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<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><span id="toc1">Donald Trump: From Business Magnate to Galactic Mission</span></h2>



<p><strong>From Real Estate King to 45th U.S. President</strong></p>



<p><strong>Donald John Trump</strong> began his career as an American real estate mogul. As the head of the prestigious &#8220;Trump Organization&#8221; in New York, he developed numerous skyscrapers and resorts. He then rose to fame with the TV show &#8220;The Apprentice&#8221; and, in 2016, became the 45th President of the United States. He made a strong global impact as an &#8220;outsider politician&#8221; who aimed to disrupt Washington&#8217;s existing political establishment.</p>



<p>However, his &#8220;work&#8221; extends beyond that. While his public persona is that of a &#8220;President,&#8221; there is information suggesting his hidden role is that of a &#8220;<strong>being on a galactic mission</strong>.&#8221;</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><span id="toc2">A Bridge Between Cosmic Beings and Earth Humanity</span></h2>



<p>Donald Trump is believed to have had contact with extraterrestrial beings, including Pleiadians, for many years.</p>



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<li>He was reportedly <strong>aware of the Pleiadians</strong> as early as his 40s.</li>



<li>His wife, Melania, and son, Barron, have allegedly <strong>traveled on Pleiadian spacecraft</strong>.</li>



<li>Trump himself is said to have had experiences where he was &#8220;completely off-planet.&#8221;</li>
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<p>Trump is described as a <strong>&#8220;hub of information&#8221;</strong> between Earth and the cosmos, holding the key to <strong>&#8220;disclosure&#8221; (the revelation of truth)</strong> by the Galactic Federation.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><span id="toc3">The Mystery of His Lineage: Connection to General Patton and Lincoln</span></h2>



<p>Even more astonishing, Trump is believed to have a highly confidential lineage.</p>



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<li>His biological father is allegedly not Fred Trump, but <strong>General George S. Patton</strong>, a hero of World War II.</li>



<li>He was reportedly <strong>adopted into the Fred Trump family</strong> as a young child.</li>



<li>General Patton, surprisingly, was the <strong>grandson of Abraham Lincoln</strong>, a founding father of America.</li>
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<p>Donald Trump is thus described as a <strong>&#8220;singularity connecting Earth and the cosmos,&#8221;</strong> having inherited both &#8220;Lincoln&#8217;s blood&#8221; and a &#8220;galactic soul.&#8221;</p>



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<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><span id="toc4">Melania Trump: The Romanov Lineage and a Hidden Battle</span></h2>



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<p><strong>Who is Melania Trump?</strong></p>



<p>She is a graceful individual. <strong>Melania Trump</strong>, born Melanija Knavs on April 26, 1970, in Novo Mesto, former Yugoslavia, is known as a former model and the wife of President Donald Trump. However, some researchers and spiritual information providers believe there is a <strong>&#8220;significant secret&#8221;</strong> regarding her lineage. This secret is that Melania Trump is a descendant of the <strong>Romanov family</strong>.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><span id="toc5">Russian Royalty&#8217;s Blood and the Truth of the Current &#8220;Invisible War&#8221;</span></h2>



<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><span id="toc6">The Romanovs: Executed Russian Royalty</span></h3>



<p>The Romanov family was the imperial house of Russia, including the last Emperor Nicholas II. Their fate drastically changed with the 1917 Russian Revolution. On July 16-17, 1918, Nicholas II and his family were executed by the Bolsheviks at the foot of the Ural Mountains. This is recorded as a historical fact.</p>



<p>However, some theories suggest a deeper structure behind this event.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><span id="toc7">The Truth Behind the Execution: The Shadow of the Rothschild Family and International Finance</span></h2>



<p>The Romanov family had reportedly refused the Rothschild Bank&#8217;s control over Russia for many years. This stance represented an effort to reject the central banking system and protect the nation&#8217;s economic sovereignty. Thus, there is a claim that international financial forces (Jewish bankers, often referred to as Rothschilds or Khazarian Mafia), led by Jacob Schiff, had a motive to support the Bolshevik regime and eliminate the royal family. In fact, there are documents and testimonies indicating that communist leaders like Karl Marx, Lenin, and Stalin, as well as dictators like Hitler and Mao Zedong, also received support from bankers.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><span id="toc8">Is Melania a Romanov Descendant?</span></h2>



<p>Considering this historical background, the following hypothesis emerges:</p>



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<li>Some family members secretly survived and emigrated to America.</li>



<li>Melania Trump is, in fact, descended from the Romanov family.</li>



<li>She is a <strong>&#8220;survivor&#8221; of the royal family</strong> whose history was buried in darkness.</li>



<li>This implies she could be the <strong>&#8220;legitimate princess&#8221; of modern Russia</strong>.</li>
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<p>Based on this theory, her meeting with Donald Trump, a &#8220;man of destiny,&#8221; and becoming the First Lady of the United States, is not seen as mere coincidence.</p>



<p><strong>Melania Trump&#8217;s Current Role as &#8220;The Wife&#8221;</strong></p>



<p>The Melania Trump we see on television, etc., is actually playing the role of Mr. Trump&#8217;s wife as part of a &#8220;<strong>White Hat mission</strong>.&#8221; The real Melania is currently said to be working with Russian President Vladimir Putin.</p>



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<h3 class="wp-block-heading"><span id="toc9">Towards a Galactic Shift: Why Now?</span></h3>



<p>Donald Trump is expected to fully disclose information about the Galactic Federation and UFOs (UAPs) in the future. This is not merely a political move but part of a cosmic process to accelerate humanity&#8217;s overall <strong>dimensional ascension (ascension)</strong> and evolution. As this information comes to light, our common sense and understanding of history will undergo significant changes.</p>



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<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><span id="toc10">Are We Fighting &#8220;Communism&#8221; Again?</span></h2>



<p>It is widely known that the Trump administration had strong anti-globalist and anti-communist tendencies. There is also a perspective that this battle is not merely a political struggle but a continuation of a centuries-long &#8220;<strong>battle of souls</strong>.&#8221; The opponent is the force behind the spread of communism—those who eliminated the Romanov family and who may still be the &#8220;<strong>shadow government</strong>&#8221; controlling global finance, media, and technology.</p>



<p>Nevertheless, Mr. Trump has severely dismantled many of these operations in recent years. Currently, he is said to be advancing the &#8220;<strong>purification</strong>&#8221; of unseen human trafficking organizations, satanic networks, and corrupt financial systems worldwide.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading"><span id="toc11">The &#8220;Final Cleanup&#8221; Stage: Hope for the Future?</span></h2>



<p>What remains is the disclosure to those who are not yet awakened, and the present may seem like a state of confusion. However, this is nothing less than the collapse of old control structures and the process of transitioning to a new world.</p>



<p>The key to surviving this coming era is for each of us to &#8220;<strong>realize the truth</strong>.&#8221; Donald Trump, Melania Trump, and their galactic allies are acting for the freedom and love of humanity.</p>



<p>To all of you who have read this far, please feel the truth with your own intuition and heart. The meaning of being born in this era is surely not a coincidence.</p>



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<p>It is important to go back to the starting point every so often. With people who have seen the same scenery, a single word can be understood, but without a certain amount of intuition and experience on the part of the receiver, the essence of that word will not reach them.</p>



<p>For example, it is often said that &#8220;smart people can explain difficult things in an easy-to-understand way.</p>



<p>In reality, however, there are people who are not good at communicating even if they are smart, and because people derive relief and pleasure from the “feeling of understanding,” it is easy to perceive that even difficult problems are true when they are explained in a concise manner.</p>



<p>This is called cognitive bias, and it is a false generalization, even if it is partly correct.</p>



<p>Many people are under the illusion that easy-to-understand = correct, but sometimes that is just because they are pulled by a sense of conviction that is close to a pleasant feeling.</p>



<p>What is really important is the attitude of questioning oneself, &#8220;Is this true? What really matters is the attitude of being able to question oneself, &#8220;Is this true?</p>



<p>After all&#8230;there are certainly stories that can only be conveyed by people with life experience, experiences of suffering and overcoming problems on their own, and such steady accumulation of experience.</p>



<p>Only those with whom one&#8217;s intuition and experience mesh can understand each other on a deeper level. I am reminded of this obvious fact every day.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[Greek mythology is no moral or ethical shit, and I&#8217;m rambling on about the psychology from there. Mr. Nagoshi, a psychiatrist. I guess there are not many psychiatrists who can analyze so much. It is amazing that he can talk so much about game characters and stories. If you have time, please watch it because [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>Greek mythology is no moral or ethical shit, and I&#8217;m rambling on about the psychology from there.</p>



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<p>Mr. Nagoshi, a psychiatrist. I guess there are not many psychiatrists who can analyze so much. It is amazing that he can talk so much about game characters and stories. If you have time, please watch it because it will be helpful.</p>



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<p>I&#8217;ll tell you a story about King Oedipus of Greek mythology that came out of Mr. Nagoshi&#8217;s talk on this channel (in another video).<br><br>From this point on, the content is a bit difficult to read, but I will leave it up to you to decide whether you are interested or not, and I have no intention of blaming you or anything like that.</p>



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    <ol class="toc-list open"><li><a href="#toc1" tabindex="0">Oedipus the Great</a><ol><li><a href="#toc2" tabindex="0">Synopsis (as described by chatGPT)</a></li><li><a href="#toc3" tabindex="0">Themes</a></li></ol></li><li><a href="#toc4" tabindex="0">Freudian and Adlerian psychology</a><ol><li><a href="#toc5" tabindex="0">Sigmund Freud</a></li><li><a href="#toc6" tabindex="0">What is the Oedipus Complex?</a></li><li><a href="#toc7" tabindex="0">Significance of the Oedipus Complex</a></li><li><a href="#toc8" tabindex="0">Alfred Adler</a></li><li><a href="#toc9" tabindex="0">Adler&#8217;s main theories</a></li><li><a href="#toc10" tabindex="0">Modern Interpretation</a></li><li><a href="#toc11" tabindex="0">Conclusion.</a></li></ol></li><li><a href="#toc12" tabindex="0">In case you&#8217;re wondering, Jung has something to do with this.</a></li><li><a href="#toc13" tabindex="0">Carl Gustav Jung</a><ol><li><a href="#toc14" tabindex="0">Jung&#8217;s Relationship to Mythology</a></li><li><a href="#toc15" tabindex="0">The Difference Between Jung and Freud: Interpreting the Oedipus Myth</a></li></ol></li><li><a href="#toc16" tabindex="0">Eventually, Jung also lost sight of Freud&#8217;s ideas and criticized them.</a></li><li><a href="#toc17" tabindex="0">Conclusion.</a></li></ol>
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<h2><span id="toc1">Oedipus the Great</span></h2>
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<p>King Oedipus is a tragedy written by the ancient Greek playwright Sophocles, and is one of the most famous of all Greek tragedies, praised by Aristotle as “the masterpiece of tragedy.”</p>
<p>The play depicts the strange fate of Oedipus, King of Thebais, and the terrible truths he uncovers in his pursuit of the truth.</p>
<h3><span id="toc2">Synopsis (as described by chatGPT)</span></h3>
<p>Background.<br />The city of Thebai is suffering from a plague. Oedipus, the king, decides to receive an oracle to discover the cause of this plague. The oracle tells him that the cause of the plague is that the murderer of Laius, the former king of Thebai, has not been captured.</p>
<p>The investigation begins.<br />Oedipus begins to investigate the truth behind Laius&#8217; death. He summons the soothsayer Teiresias, who warns him that “to know the truth would bring disaster. Oedipus questions him, and Teiresias finally tells him that Oedipus himself is responsible for Laius&#8217; murder. Oedipus does not believe him, and he vehemently condemns Teiresias and his entourage.</p>
<p>Mystery of the Past Revealed<br />Oedipus gradually begins to doubt the truth about his birth. Eventually, in the process of discovering the truth, it is revealed that he was a prince who was abandoned as a child, unwittingly killed his father Laius, and married his mother Iocaste. This fact was foretold by the oracle, the very fate that Oedipus was trying to avoid.</p>
<p>The Tragic Conclusion<br />After the truth is revealed, Iocaste, his mother and wife, commits suicide, and Oedipus is blinded by the gouging out of his own eyes. The play then ends with his abdication of the throne and exile from Thebais.</p>
<h3><span id="toc3">Themes</span></h3>
<p>The themes of “Oedipus the King” are fate, free will, and human limitations.</p>
<p>Fate: Oedipus&#8217; destiny was determined by an oracle and could not be avoided no matter how hard he tried.<br />The Quest for Truth: Oedipus pursues the truth, but his pursuit leads him to a catastrophic end.<br />Human Ignorance: Oedipus&#8217; pursuit of truth leads him to a catastrophic end.<br />Significance of “Oedipus the King</p>
<p>This work offers some of the most profound philosophical insights in ancient Greek literature and continues to influence many literary works and philosophical discussions today.</p>
<p>It is also the origin of the Freudian psychological term “Oedipus Complex”.</p>
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<p>The point is that if you didn&#8217;t know the secret of your birth and didn&#8217;t go to the country of your birth from a misunderstanding, a misunderstanding, you wouldn&#8217;t have killed your father and you wouldn&#8217;t have ・・・・ with your mother, and it&#8217;s too tragic a story.</p>



<p>It&#8217;s graphic, it&#8217;s a myth, but there&#8217;s incest.</p>


<h2><span id="toc4">Freudian and Adlerian psychology</span></h2>


<p>Freudian and Adlerian psychology were both working together, but Adler criticized Freud on this issue, and the two had a bitter argument that led to the creation of Freudian and Adlerian psychology.</p>


<h3><span id="toc5">Sigmund Freud</span></h3>


<p>Sigmund Freud (May 6, 1856 &#8211; September 23, 1939) was an Austrian neurologist and the founder of psychoanalysis.<br>He was a pioneer who sought to elucidate the human psyche from an innovative perspective, including the unconscious, dreams, desires, and the structure of the mind, and had a major impact on modern psychology and psychiatry.</p>





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<p>Psychology, or just the instinctive part… Freud&#8217;s theory has deep insights into the human mind from the instinctive and unconscious part as well as the rational part.</p>



<p>Even within psychology,<br>His approach is particularly unique in that he focuses on “instinctive impulses” and “unconscious forces.</p>



<p>He believed that many human behaviors and emotions are influenced by repressed desires and memories in the unconscious. It emphasizes the relationship between instinct and the unconscious.</p>


<h3><span id="toc6">What is the Oedipus Complex?</span></h3>


<p>The Oedipus Complex is a psychological condition in which a child in early childhood (around 3-6 years of age) unconsciously develops sexual affection toward a parent of the opposite sex and at the same time develops competitive and hostile feelings toward a parent of the same sex.</p>



<p>In the case of boys (Oedipus Complex) boys develop affection for their mothers and see their fathers as rivals. This affection is unconscious and is usually suppressed by social norms and morality.</p>



<p>In the case of girls (Electra Complex) Carl Jung, a disciple of Freud, used the term “Electra Complex” to describe the girl version. In this case, the girl is affectionate toward her father and sees her mother as competition.<br>Resolution of this complex<br>According to Freud, this complex should be resolved as the child grows up, and in the process the child forms a Super-Ego.<br>The super-ego is a psychological structure that internalizes social norms and morals and serves to control desires.</p>



<p>The boy suppresses feelings of hostility toward his father and resolves his complex by identifying with him.<br>Similarly, girls control their affection for their fathers while repairing their relationship with their mothers.</p>


<h3><span id="toc7">Significance of the Oedipus Complex</span></h3>


<p><span class="bold-red">Part of psychological development</span></p>



<p>Freud considered the complex an important stage in human psychological development. When properly resolved, it is the foundation for healthy character development and relationships.</p>



<p><span class="bold-red">Repression and the Unconscious</span></p>



<p>When not fully resolved, desires can be repressed and affect the unconscious. This repression may lead to psychological problems and neuroses in adulthood.</p>



<p><span class="bold-red">Criticisms and Modern Evaluations</span></p>



<p>Freud&#8217;s Oedipus Complex theory has received much support because of its originality and influence, but it has also been criticized for the following</p>



<p><span class="bold-red">Question of universality.</span></p>



<p>It has been questioned whether the complex applies to all cultures and people. It has also been pointed out that the theory may not be universal given diverse cultural backgrounds.</p>



<p><span class="bold-red">Lack of Scientific Evidence</span></p>



<p>As is true of Freud&#8217;s theories in general, some argue that they lack scientific credibility because they are not based on empirical data.</p>


<h3><span id="toc8">Alfred Adler</span></h3>


<p>Alfred Adler (February 7, 1870 &#8211; May 28, 1937) was an Austrian psychiatrist and psychologist.<br>He was involved in the early development of psychoanalysis with Freud, but later developed his own psychological theories and proposed Individual Psychology.</p>



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<h3><span id="toc9">Adler&#8217;s main theories</span></h3>


<p><span class="bold-red">1.The Pursuit of Superiority (Superiority Complex)</span></p>



<p>Adler believed that the basic motivation of human beings is to overcome feelings of inferiority and to pursue superiority.<br>All humans are born with a sense of “inferiority,” and they strive to overcome it and grow.<br>However, if the sense of inferiority is too strong, it can lead to an “inferiority complex,” which in turn can lead to excessive self-confidence and a desire for dominance (superiority complex).</p>



<ol start="2" class="wp-block-list">
<li><span class="bold-red">Importance of social relationships</span></li>
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<p>While Freud emphasized the unconscious and the inner impulses of the individual, Adler believed that human beings are social beings and that connections with others and social roles motivate behavior.<br>He advocated the concept of “sense of community,” emphasizing a sense of cooperation with others and contribution to society as a whole.</p>



<ol start="3" class="wp-block-list">
<li><span class="bold-red">Purpose Orientation</span></li>
</ol>



<p>While Freud focused on past experiences and the unconscious, Adler believed that human behavior is motivated by future goals.<br>For example, he held that “what kind of future” is more important than past traumas.</p>



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<li><span class="bold-red">Lifestyle</span></li>
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<p>Adler stated that human behavior is based on an individual&#8217;s “lifestyle,” which is shaped by childhood experiences.<br>Lifestyle refers to a person&#8217;s unique “way of approaching life” and “problem solving.</p>



<p><span class="fz-24px">Adler said that this happened because of a “paternalistic and oppressive home.</span><br><br>But if it&#8217;s unconsciously making them do this, then Freud seems to have won. See ・・・・・ Hate.<br>Speaking without emotion, Freud is in agreement.<br>Both Freud and Adler offer important perspectives for understanding the human psyche, and both theories have their own value because each takes a different approach to explaining how the mind works.</p>



<p><span class="bold-red">Freud&#8217;s Perspective: The Unconscious and Instinct</span></p>



<p>Much of human behavior is governed by unconscious desires and impulses.<br>The past (especially childhood experiences) has a profound influence on the formation of the present personality.<br>Interpretation of dreams and the unconscious is important to understand mental conflicts.</p>



<p><span class="bold-red">Adler&#8217;s Perspective: Purpose and Sociality</span></p>



<p>Human behavior is driven by a purpose orientation to overcome feelings of inferiority and to achieve superiority.<br>Relationships with others and social connections are central motivations for psychology and behavior.<br>Focuses on future goals and hopes rather than the past.</p>



<p>Based on these,<br>spiritual perspective, it&#8217;s a result of the way things were meant to be.<br>After all, what did King Oedipus want to convey?<br>The view that fate, destiny, the law of cause and effect, or the growth of the soul, is pre-planned if we explain it from the point of view of.</p>



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<li><span class="bold-red">the inevitability of human destiny</span><br>Oedipus strove to avoid the prophecy that he would kill his father and marry his mother, but ultimately met that fate.<br>This underscores the theme that no matter how hard we try, we cannot escape our fate.<br>In ancient Greece, it was commonly believed that fate (moira) was absolute, determined by the gods, and that man could not change it.<br>This work symbolically illustrates the power of that fate.<br></li>



<li><span class="bold-red">human knowledge and limitations</span><br><br>Oedipus, who through his own brilliance solved the riddle of the Sphinx and became king of Thebais, was plunged into tragedy when he learned the truth about himself.<br>This suggests that human knowledge and wisdom are limited, and that sometimes they result in human suffering.</li>
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<p>The weight of knowing the truth.</p>



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<li><span class="bold-red">hubris and its consequences</span><br>Oedipus shows a strong will to shape his own destiny and to challenge the gods and fate.<br>Such arrogance (“hubris” in Greek) is often portrayed in ancient Greek tragedies as the factor that leads the hero to his doom.</li>
</ol>



<p>Through the story of Oedipus, Sopocles may be conveying the lesson that overconfidence in one&#8217;s own power and disregard for gods and fate can lead to one&#8217;s downfall.</p>



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<li><span class="bold-red">self-awareness and human nature</span><br>In the story, Oedipus struggles to know his identity and destiny. In the process, he is forced to accept his past and his inevitable destiny.<br>This leads to the fundamental question, “What is a human being?” which leads to the fundamental question, “What is a human being?</li>
</ol>



<p>The pain of self-knowledge, of understanding oneself fully, is sometimes painful, and the tragedy of Oedipus is an extreme example.</p>



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<li><span class="bold-red">religious and ethical questions</span><br>The work also makes one think about man&#8217;s attitude toward the will and prophecies of the gods.</li>
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<p>The gods are portrayed not only as prophecy-givers but also as destiny-determiners. This raises the question of whether human beings have no choice but to accept their fate or to challenge it.<br>(God could have phrased it a little differently, couldn&#8217;t he? (God could have phrased it a little differently, don&#8217;t you think?)</p>


<h3><span id="toc10">Modern Interpretation</span></h3>


<p>In modern times, “Oedipus the Great” is sometimes read not simply as a story about fate and the gods, but as a work that questions self-understanding and the meaning of human existence.<br>It also offers many suggestions from the perspective of family relationships and psychological conflicts, as Freud was inspired by this work to propose the concept of the “Oedipus Complex.</p>


<h3><span id="toc11">Conclusion.</span></h3>


<p>King Oedipus” is a work about the fundamental human problem: ”Should we accept or resist our destiny?<br>At the same time, it makes us think deeply about human nature through universal themes such as knowledge and ignorance, the pain of self-awareness, and the price of arrogance.<br>Oedipus&#8217; tragic story has a powerful message that asks how we should live as human beings.</p>



<p>Rather than saying which is the “right” answer, it is more appropriate to think of each as capturing the complexity of humanity from a different angle.</p>


<h2><span id="toc12">In case you&#8217;re wondering, Jung has something to do with this.</span></h2>


<p>Jungian psychology is the psychology proposed by the Swiss psychiatrist and psychologist Carl Gustav Jung.</p>



<p>It divides the structure of the human mind into “conscious” and “unconscious,” and further divides the unconscious into “individual unconscious” and “collective unconscious.</p>



<p>The “collective unconscious” is thought to contain “archetypes” that are forms of mind common to all human beings, and which are expressed in dreams.</p>



<p>Human characteristics can be classified into eight types based on “extroverted” and “introverted” temperaments and mental characteristics of “thought,” “emotion,” “feeling,” and “intuition.</p>



<p>He has a generous philosophy toward pathology and does not treat mentally ill patients as unhealthy, but as “healthy in their own way.</p>



<p>Psychotherapy emphasizes dialogue with the client and aims for growth through dialogue between the client and counselor.</p>



<p>Jungian psychology is a branch of psychology developed in Western Europe and popularized in Japan. Jung&#8217;s theories have influenced not only psychology but also art, literature, religious studies, and many other fields.</p>


<h2><span id="toc13">Carl Gustav Jung</span></h2>


<p>Carl Gustav Jung (July 26, 1875 &#8211; June 6, 1961) was a Swiss psychiatrist and psychologist.<br>He studied depth psychology under Breuer and founded analytical psychology (Jungian psychology).</p>





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<p>Jung and Freud seem to have been master and disciple at one time.</p>



<p>Jung also had a strong interest in myths and ancient tales such as “Oedipus the King,” which is related to his psychological theories.</p>



<p>However, Jung&#8217;s interpretation differs from Freud&#8217;s in that he views this work and its themes from a more symbolic and collective unconscious perspective.</p>


<h3><span id="toc14">Jung&#8217;s Relationship to Mythology</span></h3>


<p>Jung believed that myths and stories are deeply symbolic representations of the human psyche. He held that they are manifestations of “archetypes” in the common unconscious of humankind, called the collective unconscious.</p>



<p>Collective Unconsciousness<br>A universal realm of the mind shared by all humankind that transcends the unconscious of each individual. It appears as a common pattern in myths, religions, and dreams.</p>



<p>Archetype<br>The basic images or themes contained in the collective unconscious. Examples include “hero,” “mother,” “old sage,” and “shadow.</p>



<p>The story of Oedipus contains several important archetypes in Jungian psychology.</p>



<p>The “King Oedipus” and Jungian Psychology</p>



<p><span class="bold-red">The Hero&#8217;s Journey (individuation process)</span></p>



<p>The story of Oedipus corresponds to the “hero&#8217;s journey.<br>It is the universal story of the quest for self and the challenges one faces in finding truth.</p>



<p>Jung saw this “journey” as a symbol of personal growth and individuation (self-realization). Oedipus shows acceptance of his destiny and truth through suffering.</p>



<p><span class="bold-red">Shadow</span></p>



<p>Oedipus&#8217; act of killing his father and marrying his mother is associated with the Jungian concept of shadow.</p>



<p>Shadows are the repressed qualities or unacceptable aspects of the human unconscious. Oedipus tried to avoid his “shadow” but eventually had to face it.</p>



<p><span class="bold-red">Fate and the Power of the Unconscious</span></p>



<p>Jung sometimes viewed fate as a manifestation of unconscious forces. Oedipus&#8217; fate appears to be driven not by his own will but by the collective unconscious or unconscious forces.</p>



<p>In other words, Oedipus&#8217; tragedy can be interpreted as “the result of disregarding unconscious forces.</p>



<p><span class="bold-red">Self and Truth</span></p>



<p>According to Jungian psychology, the self is the center of the individual mind, and reaching truth is part of the process of self-realization. Oedipus&#8217; process of discovering the truth of his birth can be seen as a symbolic story of self-discovery.</p>


<h3><span id="toc15">The Difference Between Jung and Freud: Interpreting the Oedipus Myth</span></h3>


<p><span class="bold-red">Freud.</span></p>



<p>Freud interpreted the Oedipus story primarily in terms of sexual desire (Oedipus Complex). He related this to the unconscious desires that young children have for their opposite-sex parents and their hostility toward their same-sex parents.</p>



<p><span class="bold-red">Jung.</span></p>



<p>Jung saw the Oedipus myth in a broader symbolic perspective and examined its relationship to the spiritual development of the whole person and the unconscious.</p>



<p>For him, the story depicted a universal process of self-realization,<br>It can be said that this story describes a universal process of self-realization.</p>


<h2><span id="toc16">Eventually, Jung also lost sight of Freud&#8217;s ideas and criticized them.</span></h2>


<p>For Jung, “Oedipus the King” is not just a story of familial relationships and sexual desires, but represents a journey of struggle with the unconscious, self-understanding, and individuation (self-realization).</p>



<p>Looking at this story from both Freudian and Jungian perspectives will provide a deeper psychological understanding.</p>



<p>By the way, Jung had a spiritual experience. So there&#8217;s a lot more to it…right?</p>



<p><a rel="noopener" href="https://core.ac.uk/download/pdf/56630594.pdf" target="_blank">https://core.ac.uk/download/pdf/56630594.pdf</a></p>


<h2><span id="toc17">Conclusion.</span></h2>


<p><br>Is justice a matter of being misdirected?<br>To be honest, I personally am not sure about Freud&#8217;s ideas, but I think that many of the bizarre incidents in the world that make me shake my head are connected to Freud&#8217;s concepts.</p>



<p>To be honest, even if you can&#8217;t do psychic reading or channeling, you can understand most of it if you study various kinds of psychology.</p>



<p>However, the complexity of the mind cannot be discussed in depth unless you have a lot of experience.</p>



<p>Reading books is probably the best way. Movies and games are also fine.</p>



<p>So I&#8217;ll end here.</p>



<p>(To be honest, I could go on and on, but I&#8217;ve managed to cut it down to the bare bones.) Thank you for reading.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The title may sound a little harsh, but please understand that I&#8217;m not trying to be discriminatory. It&#8217;s mostly a question of human nature.<br />
I&#8217;ve worked in nursing care before, so I think I understand how hard it is. And actually experiencing it myself, I didn&#8217;t have any particular problems with providing care. It was hard for people with big bodies though&#8230; (^^;)<br />
I was in my 20s at the time, so it might be a little more tiring now.<br />
The difficulty was in dealing with the person&#8217;s personality. Dementia can also change a person&#8217;s personality, so I&#8217;ve had difficulties with some people.<br />
It&#8217;s really tough. It&#8217;s a series of near-misses. If you don&#8217;t know how to provide care, you can hurt the person. It also has to do with your own physical condition.<br />
It&#8217;s all rather unrewarding, so I think they should raise the pay a bit more. There is a cap on the nursing care compensation, so it&#8217;s difficult to do that&#8230;</p>
<p>I have also worked with a girl who was born with cerebral palsy.<br />
It&#8217;s okay to be a little selfish. That&#8217;s because if you don&#8217;t express it like that, it won&#8217;t get across. I&#8217;m sure there are care staff who get fed up with this, but even if we have healthy bodies now, we never know what might happen in the future, and there&#8217;s a chance that we were born with a disabled body at least once in a past life.<br />
We just don&#8217;t remember it.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s okay to be selfish.</p>
<p>However, there is a risk that this could become excessive depending on how the adults around them treat them. It seems that the girl who caused a stir at the wheelchair fire at AEON Cinema has done something again&#8230; There was a lot of verbal abuse from people with immature minds, who only had different perspectives and who had become well-known influencers.<br />
Even if there were also problems with her personality, if you think about it calmly, anyone who has lived with a disability since childhood could have said or done something inappropriate like this.<br />
If you don&#8217;t have much experience with the soul, you&#8217;re bound to make mistakes.<br />
It could have been me this time.<br />
Basically, the people with disabilities I&#8217;ve met have often had pure hearts, but if you have a high level of intelligence and live an unreasonable life, that&#8217;s probably what happens.<br />
If this can change the way companies operate by communicating with the world through our mutual ideas, then we can say that the controversy was a good thing after all&#8230; (although it probably wasn&#8217;t that good).<br />
The rest depends on the person&#8217;s mindset and spirituality.<br />
I don&#8217;t think there are any coincidences in this world. I think that having a disability is born out of the meaning of helping each other.</p>
<p>You can&#8217;t talk about it with logic alone.<br />
You can&#8217;t talk about it with feelings alone.</p>
<p>Instead of fighting with someone who doesn&#8217;t care about you, focus on yourself. That&#8217;s all.</p>
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		<title>To those who are creating a large number of accounts</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Sep 2024 08:39:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[There are various reasons, and it&#8217;s not uncommon to have a few accounts, so I don&#8217;t think anything of it (I also have a side job, and I can make fake accounts on servers). On every SNS, there are people who wastefully make 20, 30, or even 100 accounts, and then approach people by pretending [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are various reasons, and it&#8217;s not uncommon to have a few accounts, so I don&#8217;t think anything of it (I also have a side job, and I can make fake accounts on servers).</p>
<p>On every SNS, there are people who wastefully make 20, 30, or even 100 accounts, and then approach people by pretending to be from a different region or gender.</p>
<p>People who don&#8217;t look at their own actions, but instead apply them to others who are below them or at the same level as them, and relieve their stress.<br />
They are people who don&#8217;t really face reality and don&#8217;t really act, but just pretend to understand.<br />
I wonder what they really want to do.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s nothing you can do about it.</p>
<p>It won&#8217;t change a thing.</p>
<p>Instead of wasting your time chasing after something that&#8217;s pointless, why not use that time to communicate with other people seriously, or to study things like improving your own skills?</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t you ever wonder what the point of living is if you can&#8217;t do that?</p>
<p>If you keep doing that, you&#8217;ll never grow and you&#8217;ll just die, your own life. Your issues will always remain biased and stuck.</p>
<p>(This is directed at a certain person, so please understand.)</p>
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		<title>The reason I was born a poor talker</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Sep 2024 08:36:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m writing this remembering the time when I was asked “Are you aiming to become a full-time employee?” when I first started my current job, and I was like “Eh, a&#8230; umm?”. As a result, I&#8217;m now a full-time employee, but I went out to work because I&#8217;m not good at staying still at home, [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m writing this remembering the time when I was asked “Are you aiming to become a full-time employee?” when I first started my current job, and I was like “Eh, a&#8230; umm?”.<br />
As a result, I&#8217;m now a full-time employee, but I went out to work because I&#8217;m not good at staying still at home, and I acted because it&#8217;s easier for my body and mind to be stable during the day than at night. But even after experiencing various jobs, I still have anger that doesn&#8217;t turn to resentment.<br />
Society is very focused on the things that don&#8217;t really matter, and doesn&#8217;t pay attention to the important things. It&#8217;s all about evaluation.<br />
I&#8217;ve had a bit of a stutter since I was a child (when I try to speak, I can&#8217;t think of what to say and nothing comes out), and I&#8217;ve always had fewer opportunities to speak than other people around me. When I do speak, I end up saying things in a strange way, so I end up worrying about it and stop speaking&#8230; it&#8217;s a common problem for introverts.<br />
And you know, the people around me tend to talk to me because I give off an easy-to-talk-to vibe, so they keep nagging me.<br />
I&#8217;m usually just spaced out, but if they&#8217;re being too persistent or contradicting themselves, I get angry and fire back with words.<br />
A quarrel is the beginning of a war. (Arguing won&#8217;t solve anything.)<br />
I realized this when I was alive. I have a natural fighting spirit.<br />
It seems that I put pressure on the people around me, and when I made them angry, I gave them the impression that I was scary. They said that I had a harsh way of speaking.<br />
The truth is that I am a person who gets angry at the contradictions of the world and at people who can&#8217;t do anything about it. My head gets all hot and I force myself to hold it back. And my heart is all in a turmoil.<br />
I think that people who have a role to play are prevented from thinking evil thoughts.<br />
You might think that everyone is the same and that it&#8217;s only natural, but no, no&#8230; there are people in the world, even in politics and in high positions, who have no heart or compassion.<br />
If you sign a contract or are manipulated, it&#8217;s impossible for even the guardian angels to stop you. I guess rational control doesn&#8217;t work.<br />
I also remember that when I worked in the nightlife industry, I was scolded by the bar&#8217;s owner when I replied harshly to a persistent customer&#8217;s email.<br />
The reason I was scolded was because the owner was worried that the customer would stop coming.<br />
I thought to myself, “Is that what I should be worrying about? I&#8217;m in such a difficult situation, but&#8230;”, but I guess the owner also thought that I was a difficult customer to deal with&#8230;<br />
I think she wanted to get rid of me and bring in a new girl. I think that&#8217;s fine.<br />
The reason why people work in the night world is almost always money. Society says that if you&#8217;ve taken up a job like that, you should do as you&#8217;re told. (To begin with, people like me shouldn&#8217;t be working at all. lol)<br />
I feel an uncontrollable anger at the thought that there are jobs where you have to give your body for money, and at the injustice of it. And also at the crimes that use children.<br />
Many times I&#8217;ve thought “I wish I&#8217;d been born a man”. But I quickly stopped myself from thinking that.<br />
No, no&#8230; I can&#8217;t just give in to the violent nature that is unique to men&#8230;<br />
This is my darkness, right? Also, there are other dark things that have attacked me. Is this inevitable?<br />
I think that not just me, but other people too are living their lives now while facing up to the darkness they carry within themselves, even if they don&#8217;t talk about it. They are living without fighting. What would be the point of fighting&#8230; because the soul remembers.<br />
It&#8217;s frustrating, and I get angry at why I have to be told what to do by people like that&#8230; and it&#8217;s the accumulation of days like that.<br />
(HSP is the accumulation of the past, isn&#8217;t it?)<br />
 That&#8217;s why I was born with a body that&#8217;s not good at talking, and it&#8217;s easier to talk to and consult with a woman&#8217;s body. I can&#8217;t be in a constant state of battle mode, so I&#8217;m a bit absent-minded, and I think people actually think that about me. And I keep my distance to a certain extent.<br />
I still don&#8217;t understand why they&#8217;re so desperate about things that don&#8217;t matter to me. They can just put it off until later or fix it easily, but to them it&#8217;s “something the country has decided”, so they just do it.<br />
I just think, “Oh, well.” I&#8217;d rather they did their own part properly than worry about other people&#8217;s, but it&#8217;s just the people like that who are sloppy about their own things. In the end, they end up putting off important things and then it becomes a big problem, and I end up having to help out&#8230;<br />
People forget about things like that.<br />
I don&#8217;t want to be bothered by such trivial things. I know they will bother me, though.<br />
But recently, I&#8217;ve been letting my bad habits come out without thinking, so I&#8217;m going to be careful&#8230; I forget about things that don&#8217;t matter to me so easily, lol.<br />
I have to learn by repeating this over and over again.</p>
<p>This may seem like a harsh message, but this is basically how I am, so please understand.</p>
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		<title>Talking about the movies I&#8217;ve seen</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Sep 2024 06:10:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I am a person who doesn&#8217;t go to the movies often and never go to see the same movie several times. Maybe once or twice a year? I&#8217;d like to introduce some of the films I&#8217;ve actually seen because I thought “I want to see this. However, there are always bad reviews for every movie, [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a person who doesn&#8217;t go to the movies often and never go to see the same movie several times.</p>
<p>Maybe once or twice a year?</p>
<p>I&#8217;d like to introduce some of the films I&#8217;ve actually seen because I thought “I want to see this. However, there are always bad reviews for every movie, and it is just a matter of chemistry. I went to see this movie on a hunch, so please don&#8217;t take offense to that.</p>
<h5><span id="toc1">The Dragon and the Freckled Princess</span></h5>
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<p>Mamoru Hosoda is famous for <a rel="“noopener”" href="//s-wars.jp/staff/staff01.html”" target="“_blank”">Summer Wars</a>. I thought young people might like a story about entering a virtual space and saving the world. </p>
<p>I would probably adore it. I saw the trailer for this movie and was so bewitched that I headed directly to the movie theater.</p>
<p>The songs are very good.</p>

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<p>Kaho Nakamura is an artist based in Kyoto. She sings powerful songs that will bring you a feeling of deep emotion.</p>
<p>The actual evaluation seems to be that the songs were the main focus and the story was scattered. I thought it was mainly about the songs, too.<br />
I guess it is music. So did you feel like you went to a movie theater to listen to the overwhelming singing in the space? </p>
<p>The story itself was not so bad&#8230; but I guess it was due to the beauty of the images. I am not interested in Mamoru Hosoda himself, so this is my impression.</p>
<h5><span id="toc2">Matrix Resurrections</span></h5>
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<p>No~ I mean, I think a lot of people are inspired by the Matrix if they know some things about the world, don&#8217;t you think? Right?</p>
<p>The Matrix is interesting at the beginning, but this time I went out to the movie theater because it seemed to be the last movie.</p>
<p>Keanu is old with a beard and no memory&#8230; and another name? I thought he was doing a good job with the action.</p>
<div class="primary-box">By the way, I like the movie “Constantine” starring Keanu.<br />
Constantine” is my favorite movie starring Keanu. You can watch it on Amazon prime if you like.</div>
<p>Nowadays, most of the movies are made almost entirely with CG. I still prefer the old days, but that&#8217;s the times we live in, so I&#8217;ll wait and see&#8230; It was cool.</p>
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<p>Agent Smith, the one who keeps coming after me, is played by a different cast this time, and I was numb to the part at 1:34 where he says, “Mr. Anderson!</p>
<p>Numb.</p>
<p>I was thrilled to see the ending from the stream of What will the Saviors end up like&#8230;?</p>
<h5 class="style-scope ytd-watch-metadata"><span id="toc3">Avatar: Way of Water</span></h5>
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<p>I didn&#8217;t see the first one in person, but I went to see this one. It&#8217;s a gut feeling.</p>
<p>The running time is about 3 hours. ！！！！！！ I didn&#8217;t care and just watched it.</p>
<p>The beauty of the images is overwhelming. I was so impressed by the CG that I wondered how far it had progressed. You really should see this in a movie theater.</p>
<p>I was also struck by the struggle between the inhabitants of the planet and the humans.  I highly recommend you to watch this movie to immerse yourself in the blue world and the way of life of extraterrestrials.</p>
<h5 class="style-scope ytd-watch-metadata"><span id="toc4">THE BATMAN</span></h5>
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<p>You like these evil stories. Batman as a dark hero.</p>
<p>Not so much evil as perfect evil, but a hero who is troubled by his feelings&#8230;. It was a little bit difficult to watch because it starts from a dim atmosphere. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s a story about a man who deduces the truth of a case and follows it up.</p>
<p>Come to think of it, I think this one had a long screening time too&#8230;!</p>
<p>I guess it is like thinking about human psychology.</p>
<h5><span id="toc5">New Ultraman</span></h5>
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<p>I don&#8217;t remember why I decided to go see it, but I did. But it was interesting.</p>
<p>The script was written by Hideaki Anno, who directed Evangelion. After the screening, there were many people who criticized the movie, but I think most people who criticize only look at the surface&#8230;. I laughed at the fact that Masami Nagasawa became life-size, but that&#8217;s not the point.</p>
<p>I will put up these lines.</p>
<p><strong>「<span class="fontBold">Ultraman is not an all-powerful god. He is a life form with life, just like you. I expect the same of all of you human beings.</span>」</strong></p>
<p>Personally, I liked Koshi Yamamoto who played Mephilus. lol</p>
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<h5><span id="toc6">New Masked Rider</span></h5>
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<p>This kind of atmosphere suits Kamen Rider well. Maybe it is because insects are the motif.</p>
<p>I enjoyed watching it until the end. However, it was a pity that Masami Nagasawa appeared in a very short scene with “Eh, that&#8217;s it! ？？？？”&#8230; It&#8217;s a pity that Masami Nagasawa appeared in a very short scene&#8230;</p>
<p>In Japanese movies, there are a lot of the same cast members lol.</p>
<h5><span id="toc7">Wife, please handle with care×revolver lily</span></h5>
<p>I like Haruka Ayase&#8217;s action scenes, or I guess I prefer stories about women fighting.</p>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Like this, if you have a gut feeling about what you want to see, it can be a movie, a museum, anywhere! Let&#8217;s go~!</p>
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		<title>Man is born alone and dies alone</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Aug 2024 08:01:41 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[And, even though I know it, a lonely creature. I&#8217;ll start at the beginning and talk a little about my own parents. My father died of cancer at the age of 50. He was a very maverick father. He was a yakuza, if you will. No, he wasn&#8217;t really a yakuza (I don&#8217;t know when [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And, even though I know it,  a lonely creature.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll start at the beginning and talk a little about my own parents.</p>
<p>My father died of cancer at the age of 50. He was a very maverick father. He was a yakuza, if you will. No, he wasn&#8217;t really a yakuza (I don&#8217;t know when he was younger), but he had a bit of a temper.</p>
<p>He didn&#8217;t have fingers on one hand, you know. It looks like he had an accident at the factory. And I was running a restaurant with hands like crabs. My slightly feisty nature was probably inherited from my father.</p>
<p>My mother had a brother and sister from a previous marriage, and later met my father and was born. I used to fight with my mother all the time.</p>
<p>When I first obtained my family registration as a teenager, my father was my stepfather and my real father was the name of a man I did not know.</p>
<p><strong><span class="fz-22px">Who&#8230; I thought.</span></strong></p>
<p>My father and mother did not have a marriage certificate when I was born and finally did when I turned 5. Until then, it was sort of a de facto marriage?</p>
<p>I still don&#8217;t know half the facts,</p>
<p>Marriage by birth involves filing a birth certificate and a marriage certificate at the same time, but if you only filed a birth certificate and did not register.</p>
<p>It seems that if you submit the marriage certificate without first submitting the “acknowledgment” form, you are treated as a “father-in-law” even though you are related by blood.</p>
<p>I wondered if she might have had a relationship with her real father and later met the father she thought she had, but since she never told me, the truth is half in the dark.</p>
<p>Well, I don&#8217;t <span class=“fz-22px”>care about such things now</span>, but I think it was a strong childhood. There are a certain amount of things I can&#8217;t say in the article, and I won&#8217;t write them all down, but I feel that my father, who passed away, and my mother, who is still alive and well, were both starved for love. I feel that both my father, who passed away, and my mother, who is not known if she is still alive, were hungry for love.</p>
<p>After her father died, she started dating new men, but they were all no good.<br />
In short, I was mentally depleted of love, so I could only date men like that. I was so disgusted with them when I was a child.</p>
<p>I was like, “Oh, I can&#8217;t have this guy.</p>
<p>Also, my older sister, who had watched her mother&#8217;s back after she remarried at an impressionable age, was also depleted of love and began to live a life similar to her mother&#8217;s. I was rebelling against my mother and sister.</p>
<p>I was repulsed by my mother and sister, but looking back now, they too must have been suffering in their own way at the time.</p>
<p>Incidentally, I also had an older brother, but he was a nice, indifferent person, so I kept a good distance from him. I don&#8217;t see him at all anymore. But my brother is my brother, too, and I guess he must have been lonely.</p>
<p>Every family, big or small, has many things going on.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think about it at all, but maybe subconsciously I am also depleted of love.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>I might have been.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>One more unimportant thing: I used to hate my name. I don&#8217;t think of my parents who named me, but I used to think it was an unfitting name.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t fit.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t fit endlessly. So why did you choose this name? I hated it.</p>
<p>So I wonder if the names that parents name their children nowadays have an inferiority complex about their own names. (Regardless of that, there are many great names.)<br />
&nbsp;</p>
<p>Then gradually I wondered if the meaning of the name had something to do with it, and now I don&#8217;t think anything of it.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>When you act for someone, but in fact it is something they did not ask you to do, or when it is often disappointing to them, you will eventually close your mind to the feeling. If that is the case, it is better to live alone.</p>
<p><span class=“fz-24px”>It&#8217;s easy</span> to be alone, because I can say what I want to say and act as I like. But something doesn&#8217;t satisfy me.</p>
<p>Is this really the right way to live for me? I spent my days introspecting in this way.</p>
<p>At the very least, I wanted to do something useful before I died. But what is that?</p>
<p>Ah, I don&#8217;t want to live for a long time.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>I have not been able to confide in anyone, and even if I did, the person I confided in did not see that much in me, or I gave up and went through twists and turns until I am where I am now.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Yes, I am a member of the community and I have been a member of the community for a long time. As I have written, I have hired a healer who approaches introspection. I can give an early impression of the healing that approaches the physical or spiritual body because I can feel it immediately, but this time it is a special healing that goes to the astral world to help me sort out negative memories.</p>
<p>I want to be healed by this person, I thought so after reading his article.</p>
<p>It is something that takes time to show its effects and not immediate feedback, so I will give my impressions after some calmness.</p>
<p>Then they treated me and took me seriously, which I felt even before that. They worked very hard to write a report.</p>
<p>So we try not to say anything lax either.</p>
<p>My life has never felt like I could tell people much about it, which in turn was the reason why I didn&#8217;t show myself. I had one good psychic (soul), but other than that, there were many superficial things that didn&#8217;t feel right.</p>
<p><strong>Everyone has both light and darkness. There is no such thing as just one or the other. There are those who have fallen too far into the darkness. That is why people can help each other.</strong></p>
<p><span class="fz-24px marker-under-blue">A final aside</span></p>
<p><a href="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8232.jpg"><img decoding="async" src="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8232.jpg" alt="" width="1170" height="1390" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3753" srcset="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8232.jpg 1170w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8232-253x300.jpg 253w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8232-862x1024.jpg 862w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8232-768x912.jpg 768w" sizes="(max-width: 1170px) 100vw, 1170px" /></a></p>
<p>You were very lively at first&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8184.jpeg"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3748" src="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8184.jpeg" alt="" width="1440" height="1920" srcset="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8184.jpeg 1440w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8184-225x300.jpeg 225w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8184-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8184-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w" sizes="(max-width: 1440px) 100vw, 1440px" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8174.jpeg"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3747" src="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8174.jpeg" alt="" width="1440" height="1920" srcset="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8174.jpeg 1440w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8174-225x300.jpeg 225w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8174-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8174-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w" sizes="(max-width: 1440px) 100vw, 1440px" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8171.jpeg"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3745" src="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8171.jpeg" alt="" width="1440" height="1920" srcset="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8171.jpeg 1440w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8171-225x300.jpeg 225w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8171-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8171-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w" sizes="(max-width: 1440px) 100vw, 1440px" /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8185.jpeg"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3749" src="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8185.jpeg" alt="" width="1440" height="1920" srcset="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8185.jpeg 1440w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8185-225x300.jpeg 225w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8185-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8185-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w" sizes="(max-width: 1440px) 100vw, 1440px" /></a></p>
<p>I bought a butterfly pea seedling, but my cat ate it a little at first, but it still sprouted new shoots and I tried to grow it, but the temperature drops during the Bon festival in my area and it is probably difficult to get it to flower at this time. It is an herb suited to summer temperatures.</p>
<p>And there&#8217;s grass growing on it that I don&#8217;t know about. What do you mean?</p>
<p>I wonder if there is a soil problem. It&#8217;s hard to tell. Plants&#8230;:(´ºωº｀):</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s autumn &#8211; everyone please take care of your health condition as the seasons change.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Aug 2024 10:15:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hello. Once again, I sometimes wonder how you guys (not all of you, and I&#8217;m sure some of you are reading this without thinking about it) see me. Sometimes I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;m writing this article by invoking my spiritual abilities or as a logical thought (lol). I am usually more blurry than you [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello.</p>
<p>Once again, I sometimes wonder how you guys (not all of you, and I&#8217;m sure some of you are reading this without thinking about it) see me. Sometimes I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;m writing this article by invoking my spiritual abilities or as a logical thought (lol).</p>
<p>I am usually more blurry than you think, yes. (I said so myself.)</p>
<p>The day before yesterday, I made an appointment for a dental checkup, and I was so blurry that I didn&#8217;t notice where to put my number card until I put in my insurance card and was pointed it out to me. Every day, I say to myself, “Oh, I&#8217;ve done it, haven&#8217;t I?</p>
<p><a href="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/85.jpg"><img decoding="async" src="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/85.jpg" alt="" width="1378" height="1378" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3728" srcset="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/85.jpg 1378w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/85-300x300.jpg 300w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/85-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/85-150x150.jpg 150w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/85-768x768.jpg 768w" sizes="(max-width: 1378px) 100vw, 1378px" /></a></p>
<p>（<strong>Why did you put your insurance card in the container there instead of presenting it as is this time, even though you have been here every time?</strong>）</p>
<p>I really don&#8217;t think about anything unless I&#8217;m in a situation where I think this is “dangerous”. I spend my time just minding my own business. When I&#8217;m walking, I might be thinking about something like a fantasy in my head. I&#8217;m just going through the motions.</p>
<p>And if you get a feeling like, “I want to say something about this,” is that from the top, or is it an empath, or is it an idea?</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t make a distinction. That&#8217;s why I can&#8217;t tell them apart. I used to be like that, but now I think I can distinguish them to some extent.</p>
<p>What can I say, <span class="marker-under">it&#8217;s just that they dare to set it up that way</span>.</p>
<p>Everyone seems to be able to channel, but there are differences between people, and that doesn&#8217;t mean we can compare, but I think we can see things more clearly if people have such a role to play.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t usually trigger it because I don&#8217;t dare to do so,<br />
（I don&#8217;t know what will happen in the future, but when I am in nature, or in an environment where I can be in a daze, or when my mind is clear, I can see things flowing. Maybe this is the channeling for me.</p>
<p><a href="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8228.jpeg"><img decoding="async" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3724" src="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8228.jpeg" alt="" width="1440" height="1920" srcset="https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8228.jpeg 1440w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8228-225x300.jpeg 225w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8228-768x1024.jpeg 768w, https://butterflyandtea.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/08/IMG_8228-1152x1536.jpeg 1152w" sizes="(max-width: 1440px) 100vw, 1440px" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span class="fz-16px">After all, it is when you are in a space like this.</span></p>
<p>I know that if you&#8217;re the type like me, you&#8217;ll be in the city and it will be hard to trigger most of the time. But that doesn&#8217;t mean I prefer the countryside. It is a place where I can settle down and adapt.</p>
<p>I guess it&#8217;s like taking it home with you as a memory and applying it to your daily life. Looking back, that has always been the case. But since I spend most of my time meeting people, talking, studying, and working, I tend to forget the scenes I felt when I was in that clear state of mind. I don&#8217;t write things down, and that&#8217;s superfluous.</p>
<p>Maybe everyone can meditate if they fit in the right place.</p>

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<p>In my case, I can only say that it is appropriate&#8230;. I&#8217;m very sorry for not being helpful.（ ;  ; ）</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sorry, but I&#8217;d like to thank you for your continued support.（What?）</p>
<p>Basically, I&#8217;m saying what I want to say, but I&#8217;m trying to be careful not to think I understand just because I guessed something.</p>
<p>When I read the opinions of various people, I am impressed by how serious they are &#8211; amazing.</p>
<p>I want to communicate! When I feel strongly that I want to convey my message, I have a mysterious conviction that I will be able to get through, but other than that, I am nothing, or really, an ordinary person. The time of flowering really depends on each person.</p>
<p>Human beings have the ability to feel. If you work staring at a computer all the time or do entertainment for a long time, that function will fade away at some point&#8230;.</p>
<p>So I think <span class=“marker-under”>I think</span> I should be able to honestly express what I feel, without having to compare myself with others.</p>
<p>Maybe those who are instructed to “do it” from above have to do it&#8230;.</p>
<p>Please be yourself.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>┏○ﾍﾟｺｯ</p>
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