This is from the words of a certain psychic (not the person who gave me the reading),
but dependence depends on your personality,
and it means that you don’t intend to live on your own, and when the means to live appear, you can’t leave them.
Even if you deny it yourself, you prefer people who make you suffer, and you don’t leave them.
Some people have both of these things, and when that happens, their lives become a series of difficulties and confusion.
It’s not love or affection, but an unhealthy obsession.
I often come into contact with people with mental illnesses, so I really think this is true, and the same goes for stalkers.
To overcome this, when something happens, you can either decide that it’s the other person’s fault, or you can think that there’s a problem with you for getting involved with that kind of person.
The latter will allow you to take responsibility for your own life and move forward.
Even if you can’t help it in your teens and twenties, if you continue to live like this even when you reach your thirties and forties, you’ll end up dragging everyone around you down with you.
I’ll borrow your memo.
Generally speaking, the things that people depend on are
・Other people – most commonly, parents, spouses, or romantic partners
・Things – alcohol, drugs, shopping addiction, etc.
・Concepts – religion, spiritual dependence, etc.
And the same goes for social networking sites. I think that people who spend all day tweeting (in terms of the percentage of people who work and earn their own income) are also included in the category of ‘addiction’.
I have a question about the things that we need to nourish in order to live,
Do you have a personality or appearance that makes people like you?
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Your appearance is something that comes from your inner self. If you have a high level of pride, it will show in your facial expression and in your voice.
Messy hair, making minimal effort, controlling people with anger, just talking…
(*I’m not talking about natural looks or body shape, so please understand.
It’s strange how they can act like they’re well-liked for no reason.
*It seems that psychopaths often have good academic records and good looks, but they don’t waver in their emotions… so I don’t think they’re the same as people who are dependent or self-sacrificing, so I don’t lump them together.
Even so, I don’t think their frequency is high…
It’s like a miracle that they can understand each other’s feelings, and that’s just hubris.
I think that because we act on instinct, our memories are also a little hazy, but if we continue like this, nothing will work out, so I want people with a dependent or self-sacrificing personality to be aware of this.
But it’s too late to change your appearance to make people like you.
Also, for people who commit crimes,
In the previous article, I wrote about what happens when a person’s frequency drops, but people who commit heinous crimes are almost always possessed, and they almost never feel guilty.
If they did feel guilty, they would think that if they committed a crime, they wouldn’t do it again.
This is also true of people who haven’t been caught, and there is a high possibility that they are also possessed if their words and actions go too far.
In the case of moral harassment, it seems that after the DV, the person often becomes kind all of a sudden, but that’s because they’re afraid of being in a “disadvantageous situation” and so they become kind. (It’s creepy in a normal way.)
If you’re someone who is easily able to read people and have a high level of intuition, you’ll feel uneasy and irritated when you get close to someone like that.
Everyone has their own definition of love, but if one person doesn’t like it, it’s already a failure, so
I hope that more people will understand that it’s not love, but just selfish behavior.
Also, being possessed by a spirit is also a sign that you are susceptible to spiritual disturbances, and it can also make you prone to physical changes. If you want to change yourself, you should reconsider your relationships with other people.
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